DIY: How do you measuređ„ your progress and celebrate your đachievements?đ
Without continual growth and progress, such words as improvement, achievement, and success have no meaning. - Benjamin Franklin
Hello to another âWheels-up Wednesday, from a gorgeous closure of another successful 72 Hour Retreat!Â
This new Principal reached out through this very newsletter to work with me because they thought their life had optimisation potential.Â
And they were right, as we found out using the Full Spectrum Life Analysis.Â
After we had concluded our onboarding session arose the question of how weâre going to proceed.Â
Now, coaching is quite useless if you donât monitor progress. Donât worry, you donât necessarily need your coach to do that.Â
In this issue Iâll point out the DIY version of how to monitor progress in your life.Â
What you have missed in âWheels-up Wednesdayâ
How I make Your đ Life Perfect đ€© - A detailed view my life coaching toolbox⊠the 72 Hour Retreat & The Full Spectrum Life Analysis
I give You: Eternal Life - A new perspective on enjoying your wealth for eternity
The Luxury of The Perfect Family - Family values and Personal Consequences
Luxury Life, for a Lifetime - A life coach should be there for you in every phase of your life; even the final one.
Liar! Self-deception, and approaches to relieve yourself of it
âOuchâ to âAwesomeâ - how replacing a word can change your life
Suprapurpose - finding a purpose in life, which doesnât cease to drive you when achieved
ćèĄĄ - The Luxury of Personal Balance - Balance everywhere :)
Only-fans foot-models and influencers need life coaching, too - how ânew moneyâ differs from âold moneyâ.
Making you wealthier than God - A quote from my first Principal ever
Why/How to detach your identity from anything material - When achieved, nothing can be taken from you - you become fearless
Do you need a life coach in the first place?Â
That question is very debatable. My previous posts may have seemed like sales pitches, yet they were geared more towards answering your own question of whether you should hire a life coach in the first place.Â
Most of what life coaches do can be done by yourself.Â
The first phase requires truthfulness in looking at your own life, fully⊠and yes, in some cases things will arise you had buried for a reason⊠resurfacing them could entail a lot of pain and discomfort for extended periods of time.Â
So thereâs a reason to have a professional present to help you deal with those kinda things.Â
Further, youâre going to need a structured approach, and the proper toolkit to help you achieve a full discovery of pain points you may have in your life.Â
DIY Painpoint IdentificationÂ
In the below article, I told you quite extensively about how my personal, and significantly modified version (yes, itâs my trade secret) of that rather dull âwheel of lifeâ. Thatâs the kind of tool you need.Â
How I make Your đ Life Perfect đ€©
On any normal Wheels-up Wednesday I normally reference the infamous 72 Hour Retreat because this is my travel day back to one of my homes. The 72 Hour Retreat is the onboarding session I conduct with every potential Principal. Probably because I mention it so frequently, I get asked quite often what the 72 Hour Retreat is, beside associated questions liâŠ
When you approach the pain point identification yourself you will likely find very obvious ones on the surface first, often minus the context.Â
Itâs imperative that you keep digging for the reasons of your discomfort in order to grab the problem by the root, thereby eradicating it.Â
Let me give you an example from âthe wildâ⊠I was with a Principal who was complaining about the problem their marriage had become during our 72 Hour Retreat.Â
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Justifiably your first reaction would be to file for a divorce, right?Â
That is exactly what my Principal was contemplating for a long time, yet got held back merely by the monetary hit they would take because of a lacking prenuptial agreement.Â
So they reached out to me, and we identified that the marriage itself was anything but broken.Â
They loved each other dearly⊠intimacy was no issue, and they hadnât actually âlived each other apartâ, as my Principal assumed.Â
And if youâve read the below Prospectus, you know how hard it can be for high net-worth individuals to find their spouse in the first place.Â
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Their spouse had just tolerated too much, which lead to a mutual discomfort.Â
No, tolerated doesnât mean that they were beating each other.Â
They just both were so focussed on their careers, and philanthropic activities they they lost focus on themselves.Â
We fixed this my realigning them, and theyâre happily married today, and dear friends, one and a half decades later.Â
DIY Journaling & MonitoringÂ
I hope that at this stage you have a list of carefully unearthed pain points, with the roots of the things challenging you clearly visible.Â
Excellent! So where do we go from here?Â
No itâs time to find the RIGHT! Medicine⊠so the right medicine in above example wasnât divorce, yet just realigning your values.Â
In other cases the solution may be less obvious.Â
Letâs just say that youâve found multiple factors in your life impacting you negatively.Â
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Then we need to start to monitor the progress of your mood, your general feelings, for the better.Â
In a professional setting we would do this with regular monitoring calls, where I would ask you about your feelings, and your progress.Â
Depending on the progress or regress, we would iterate the measures we have agreed upon until the progress is visible.Â
Now, these iterations may be more or less frequent, depending on how effective the initial measures we have taken prove to be.
In a DIY setting, you would journal your thoughts, feelings, and other factors impacting you.Â
You can either create a spreadsheet, or take to a more traditional version of journaling with a paper journal.Â
If youâre a more technical person then there are apps out there to assist you in the process.Â
Apple, for instance, just released a âmindfulnessâ function into the integrated health app, which is quite extensive, and can be very useful for you to start with.Â
Through the journaling you can monitor your own progress, and how you improve your mindset, and your overall feeling.Â
Celebrating your Achievements - the right way!Â
Celebrations donât necessarily have to be costly.Â
It can be a night out, a spa treatment, or other small things to reward yourself for progress you have made in your life.Â
Iâm mentioning it because your reward-instinct can go overboard as I have pointed out in the below Prospectus.Â
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Itâs important that you keep a degree of awareness when rewarding yourself.Â
Achievements can be anythingÂ
having closed a great business dealÂ
RetirementÂ
A great investment decisionÂ
Your offspring having successfully negotiated a life taskÂ
Whatever it is, there are two core instruments to make your reward to yourself memorable.Â
a material object you are frequently confronted with (a watch, a pen, a piece of jewellery, etc.)Â
a memory you will forever keep sacred (a very special vacation, for instance)Â
The Principal I mention in the above Prospectus rewarded themselves with expensive purchases they rarely had access to.Â
Therefore, the villas, yachts, planes, etc. werenât constantly in their life, which in turn made them fade into the entirety of their portfolio as a liability, which we strenuously had to turn into assets.Â
Do you really need a coach?
That decision is up to you alone. Â
Iâm quite certain you hire professionals for pretty much everything else.Â
On the other hand I understand how intimate a coaching can get, and how that is a turnoff for some people.Â
I will now return to my âdate-night daysâ in Africa đ€©
I hope I was able to give you some actionable DIY advice in this issue. And if you decide that youâd like to go down this road with professional assistance, email me now.Â
My BestÂ
Laurent RegardezÂ
The UHNWI CoachÂ
uhnwicoach@protonmail.comÂ
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